The kids are not all right. Almost 40 percent of young people between the ages of 13 and 24 who identify as LGBTQ+ have seriously considered suicide in the last year. That number is even higher for transgender and gender-nonbinary youth, 54 percent of whom have seriously considered suicide in that same timeframe, and 29 percent of whom have attempted it. That’s according to a new groundbreaking report from the LGBTQ+ advocacy nonprofit The Trevor Project, which polled more than 34,000 young people in 2018 to compile the largest ever survey on LGBTQ+ youth mental health in America.
The thousands of young people involved tell a familiar yet urgent story: LGBTQ+ youth are particularly vulnerable to mental health crises and suicide, and society hasn’t found enough ways to assist them. Even as acceptance for queer people is seemingly on the rise, social conditions are leading to dire mental health outcomes. And the political discourse in the US isn’t helpingâ€”76 percent of the youth surveyed said the current climate was affecting their mental well-being. “There is not something about being LGBTQ that is leading to mental health and suicide disparities, it’s the way that LGBTQ youth are treated and stigmatized,” says Amy Green, the director of research at the Trevor Project, who oversaw the survey.
That stigmatization comes from friends, family, health care professionals, and the culture at large. The survey asked kids whether they were out to an adult at school, and found that less than half were. Young people were most likely to have disclosed their sexual orientation or gender identity to an LGBTQ+ friend, and more than half disclosed to their parents.
The survey also found that one of the most harmful things that can happen to an LGBTQ+ child is when someone they come out to tries to persuade or pressure them into changing their identityâ€”either through overt conversion therapy or more subtle suggestions. Sixty-seven percent of LGBTQ+ youth reported that someone had tried to convince them to change their sexual orientation or identity. That’s two thirds of the total respondents. And of that majority, 23 percent said they had later attempted suicide. More than half of trans and non-binary youth who underwent conversation therapy later attempted suicide, according to the survey. Only 8 percent of LGBTQ+ youth who did not face pressure to change their sexual orientation or identity attempted suicide, suggesting a direct correlation between the two.
“If you are one of those people that a child is coming out to so early, if they are trusting you with that information, your initial reaction is important. It determines whether they’ll thrive or really struggle and consider something like suicide or another negative outcome,” says Michelle Birkett of the Institute for Sexual and Gender Minority Health and Wellbeing at Northwestern University. Birkett was not involved with the Trevor Project’s report but has done similar research and says the new survey is particularly significant because of the dearth of data around the topic of LGBTQ+ mental health, particularly when it comes to transgender young people.
The survey also provides insight into how LGBTQ+ kids want to be reached in times of crisis. Seventy-six percent prefer digital means of accessing help, saying that they’d be extremely likely to contact an intervention group during a crisis if that group offered a way to get in touch digitallyâ€”by text, chat, or IM. The Trevor Project has a 24-hour service to address this need, allowing people to text or chat with a Trevor staffer at any time. An overwhelming majority of the young people polledâ€”81 percentâ€”also noted that having a safe online social networking space is extremely valuable to them.
“We see this over and over again in our studies as well,” says Birkett. “Youth prefer to reach out digitally. It’s just where they feel most comfortable going.”
Birkett notes that it’s particularly important for young people to be able to find online safe spaces that are not tailored for adults. Many online communities for LGBTQ+ people are geared toward dating or sex, which is valuable, but not as important during the coming-of-age years when youth most need help navigating coming out.
As lots of research has shown, LGBTQ+ youth and adults seek community and support online but have to go to considerable lengths to make mainstream social networking platforms truly safe spaces for self-expression. A study Birkett coauthored notes that “LGBTQ young people engage in a variety of identity management strategies, including monitoring their online self-expression, using privacy and security controls, strategically managing their friendship networks, creating multiple accounts, curating and editing personal photographs, and restricting LGBTQ-related [content] to other, more anonymous online contexts.” People go to all that effort for a reason, notes Oliver Haimson, an assistant professor at the School of Information at the University of Michigan who studies gender and online identity.
“These online spaces are important to people for finding community and support, and for exploring their identity before they come out to family or people at school, which are often very stressful environments,” Haimson says.
It’s not just community that LGBTQ+ youth are seeking online; it’s also information. Studies have shown that queer youth rely on the internet and social media more than their cisgender or heterosexual peers to find information about health and mental healthâ€”from reading Tumblr blogs about gender transition to watching YouTube testimonials or transition videos to private Facebook groups about coming out. It’s also clearly important for LGBTQ+ youth to be able rely on social media and the internet to find information without having to come out online, necessarily. Despite their digital preference and desire for safe spaces online, the Trevor Project found that only 36 percent of young LGBTQ+ people have shared about their sexual orientation online, and 30 percent about their gender identity. In this way, the internet allows passive information gathering without overt disclosure.
The Trevor Project has recently put a lot of effort into its LGBTQ+-specific social networking site called TrevorSpace. “It’s a safe social network that’s moderated by a Trevor staff person,” says Green. “That’s really crucial when you’re talking about vulnerable youth.”
Haimson agrees, noting that broad sites like Facebook, YouTube, and Twitter do a notoriously poor job moderating LGBTQ+ harassment effectively. Those sites also often remove things that are not harassment because their moderators don’t understand the context. “Having these spaces be focused on LGBTQ people helps the moderation work better for people,” says Haimson. “If you have a site that is built for that population, then the values can align with the site features.”
The Trevor Project found a nationally representative sample of people for the survey through ads on social media targeted at users who showed interest in LGBTQ+-related subjects. Those who responded to the ads and then self-identified as non-heterosexual or as having a non-cisgender identity, or both, were given a questionnaire. The Trevor Project says no names were gathered. Of the 34,808 youth who filled it out, 294 were removed because they weren’t actually in the US, 8,091 were removed because they filled out less than half or rushed through it, and another 52 were removed because of suspicious or hateful answers. The final analysis was based on answers from 25,986 LGBTQ+ youth. That may sound like a small number, but it’s actually a wide swath, and the findings are in line with previous investigations, including the US National Transgender Survey and the Youth Risk Behavior Surveillance System study conducted in schools by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.
But more than affirming previous studies, the survey proves that LGBTQ+ youth still deal with discrimination, intimidation, and increased stress. It’s also a reminder that they don’t have to. “These are all changeable things, there are ways that as a society we can come together and support these youth,” says Green.
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